Showing posts with label what defines you. Show all posts
Showing posts with label what defines you. Show all posts
Wednesday, September 25, 2019
Let's talk work ethic... by @NNP_W_Light
“The true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching.”― John Wooden
How's your work ethic? Is it the same or different when people are watching?
Yesterday, I watched as an asphalt crew patched the parking lot of the building where I live. Mid-morning, five of the six men went on a coffee run. The remaining man was tasked with filling the holes with gravel then raking it flat.
He picked up the rake, turned his head left then right before setting it down. He picked up the shovel, looked all around then set it down. He shifted his feet then pulled out his phone to text someone or scroll. He didn't bother to do any actual work, just made it seem like he was working.
A thought struck me as I watched him. Work ethic.
I'm what's known as an independent worker. I prefer to work alone. Once given a task, I work away until the job is finished. I take pride in my ability to complete something by only being told once.
My work ethic I learned from my maternal grandfather. He worked hard his whole life. He was the first to share the above quote with me. This is what he told me again and again:
"It doesn't matter whether the whole world is watching or no one. Do your best and you'll be rewarded."
I have certain clients who aren't on Twitter. When they sign up for a promotion, it comes with five tweets. I could be like the paving worker and not do it. The client would never know. But here's the kicker: I would. My work ethic prevents me from doing something halfway. It's all the way or not at all.
When you're tasked with a job, work hard as if the world is watching. Develop your work ethic so it becomes a part of you. Take my grandfather's advice and do your best.
MRS N
Monday, September 16, 2019
What defines you? by @NNP_W_Light
Your wealth or status doesn’t
make you. Your kindness and character does. – Venkat Desireddy
What defines
you?
Your
career?
Your
family?
Your
wealth?
Your
home?
Your
car?
Your
friends?
For many
people, wealth and status defines who they are. It's all about making a lot of
money and getting into the "right" neighborhoods. Society is obsessed
with wealth and status.
I
learned a valuable lesson when I was a freshman in college. I came from a
divorced family and money was always tight. I got a scholarship to one of the
best colleges in Minnesota and I was surrounded by people who didn't have to
worry about money. I was judgmental at first because they had what I wanted.
Then I
met Angela (name has bee changed to protect the innocent). She and I had a lot
in common. We both loved reading books and listening to music. She was what I
called a "free spirit" and we became fast friends.
One
weekend, her mother and father came to visit the dorm. I was introduced to them
as her best friend. Her mother disliked me immediately. I wasn't from the
"right" home and later Angela told me her mother forbade her from speaking
to me again.
Did her
mother's warning work?
No! We
stayed friends for a long time, over 10 years.
When I
asked Angela why she didn't listen to her mother she replied:
"I'm
not them, I'm not defined by money and status. I make up my own mind whether someone
is worth being friends with."
I've
learned two things from this life lesson:
1- Never
judge others. You never know what they are going through and at the end of the
day, they are just like you. Sure, they may have more/less money than you or live
in a different neighborhood but they bleed and hurt just like you.
2-
Wealth and status doesn't have to define who you are. Your character and
kindness illustrates to the world who you are.
Again, I ask, what defines you? What makes you
special and unique?
Angela,
wherever you are, thank you for not listening to your mother! Your friendship
got me through a lot of bad times and vice versa. I'm so grateful our paths
crossed when they did.
MRS N
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